‘Please be kind’ Nikko Natividad’s wife speaks amid video scandal

Conducting with Compassion A Lesson in Kindness

As a professional orchestra conductor, I've had the privilege of standing on the podium, guiding the symphony to create music that transcends time and space. However, the recent scandal surrounding actor Nikko Natividad serves as a poignant reminder that even the most revered among us can fall short of our highest selves. In this blog, I'll share a personal anecdote, explore the concept of kindness, and highlight the importance of compassion in our professional lives.

As I was preparing for a concert, I stumbled upon a crepuscular moment – the fleeting hour between sunset and twilight, when the world is bathed in a warm, golden light. In that instant, I realized that, as conductors, we have a unique responsibility to cultivate kindness, not just on the stage, but in our personal lives as well.

The Power of Kindness

Cielo Mae Eusebio's plea to please be kind in the midst of her husband's controversy serves as a poignant reminder of the human cost of our actions. As conductors, we're not immune to the pressures and stresses of our profession. However, we must remember that our words and deeds have a profound impact on those around us.

When we choose to be kind, we create a ripple effect of compassion that can transform the way we interact with others. In our orchestra, kindness means being understanding and patient with our musicians, acknowledging their individual struggles, and celebrating their unique contributions.

A Lesson in Empathy

As conductors, we wear many hats – composer, historian, educator, and performer. However, in the midst of our many responsibilities, we mustn't forget to cultivate empathy. When we put ourselves in others' shoes, we begin to see the world from a different perspective. Empathy is the foundation of kindness, and it's essential for building strong relationships with our musicians, staff, and audience members.

Tuning In to Our Inner Compass

As conductors, we're constantly refining our craft, seeking ways to improve our musicianship, and exploring new interpretations of our favorite pieces. However, in our pursuit of excellence, let's not forget to tune in to our inner compass – our hearts. When we prioritize kindness, we create a harmonious environment that fosters growth, understanding, and collaboration.

Conclusion Leading with Compassion

As we navigate the complexities of our profession, let's remember that kindness is not just a virtue, but a vital component of our leadership. By embracing kindness, we become more effective conductors, inspiring our musicians to create music that uplifts and inspires. So, the next time you're standing on the podium, take a moment to breathe, look around at the beauty of the world, and remember Please be kind.

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Edward Lance Arellano Lorilla

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